{"id":4763,"date":"2023-01-02T16:54:12","date_gmt":"2023-01-02T22:54:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/?p=4763"},"modified":"2023-01-02T16:54:16","modified_gmt":"2023-01-02T22:54:16","slug":"fear-of-commitment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/?p=4763","title":{"rendered":"Fear of Commitment"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Happy (slightly belated) New Year! I don&#8217;t make resolutions because I&#8217;m terrible at keeping them, but here are a few things that I would like to accomplish in 2023:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>post on this blog at least a few times each month; <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>reach my Goodreads goal of finishing 20 books this year (I&#8217;ve already logged one book for the year, but I kind of cheated by finishing it on January 1);<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>throw a memorable party for my (this can&#8217;t be right) 50th birthday; <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>start planning a trip to&#8230;somewhere (my ability to travel is going to depend on my staffing, but I&#8217;d love to visit Paris again);<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>see a live music performance (the last show that I saw was Massive Attack in October 2019); and <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>start some sort of creative writing project. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>What are your hopes for the new year? Feel free to post them in the comments. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy (slightly belated) New Year! I don&#8217;t make resolutions because I&#8217;m terrible at keeping them, but here are a few things that I would like to accomplish in 2023: What are your hopes for the new year? Feel free to post them in the comments.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","category-12-id","post-seq-1","post-parity-odd","meta-position-corners","fix"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9Iwau-1eP","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4763","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4763"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4763\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4764,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4763\/revisions\/4764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4763"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4763"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4763"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}