{"id":569,"date":"2004-08-16T19:14:54","date_gmt":"2004-08-16T19:14:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/?p=569"},"modified":"2004-08-16T19:14:54","modified_gmt":"2004-08-16T19:14:54","slug":"follow_the_herd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/?p=569","title":{"rendered":"Follow The Herd"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I took a second look at the Edwards pictures after one of you complimented my moustache.  I really must check myself in the mirror more often.  Facial hair of any kind bugs the hell out of me.  A couple years ago, I had the chicken pox and I couldn&#8217;t shave for three or four weeks.  It was awful.  I looked like a yeshiva school dropout.  My problem is that my five o&#8217;clock shadow is more like a three o&#8217;clock shadow.  Note to self: start carrying a razor with you for those evening engagements.<br \/>\nNPR has a story about a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/features\/feature.php?wfId=3841490\">summer camp for kids with Asperger&#8217;s Syndrome<\/a>.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nami.org\/Content\/ContentGroups\/Helpline1\/Asperger_Syndrome.htm\">Asperger&#8217;s<\/a> is a mild form of autism that is usually characterized by high intelligence and a minimal ability to recognize social cues.  The camp is supposed to teach these kids how to socialize and &#8220;fit in.&#8221;  Listening to this, I started wondering if this was a subtle effort at encouraging conformity to a set of social norms, whatever those are.  I can sympathize with a parent&#8217;s desire to have their kids spared the teasing and ostracism that frequently accompanies being &#8220;different.&#8221;  Yet I don&#8217;t necessarily think we should discourage these kids from expressing their true personalities, either.  A lot of Asperger&#8217;s kids grow up to be brilliant thinkers with unique insights on the world around them.  We should be nurturing that kind of growth and reminding these that while it&#8217;s important to recognize the thoughts and feelings of others, it&#8217;s also okay to be a little different.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I took a second look at the Edwards pictures after one of you complimented my moustache. I really must check myself in the mirror more often. Facial hair of any kind bugs the hell out of me. A couple years ago, I had the chicken pox and I couldn&#8217;t shave for three or four weeks. <a href='https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/?p=569' class='excerpt-more'>[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-569","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","category-1-id","post-seq-1","post-parity-odd","meta-position-corners","fix"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9Iwau-9b","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/569","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=569"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/569\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/the19thfloor.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}