Tonight is the premiere of the new Sopranos season. I do enjoy the show, although I was a little disappointed with the unevenness of last season. I’m looking forward to seeing how Steve Buscemi is integrated into the plot–that’s Steve Buscemi of the wood chipper in Fargo and of Mr. Pink in Reservoir Dogs. I think he’s a great actor who most people only know as “That Guy.” You know, That Guy in That Show. My only hope for this season is that they find a way to off Tony’s son. That whiny little punk annoys me.
I may have found a guest blogger to sub for me while I’m in Miami. More details soon.
I was watching some music channel earlier tonight (no, not MTV) and they were showing music videos featuring Spanish-speaking artists. I now have just enough knowledge of Latin pop music to possibly impress a cute Latina while in Miami, should the occasion arise. “Oh, Kinky? Sure, they’re okay, but I really dig Cafe Tacuba.” You know, I really should have taken Spanish instead of five years of French. I keep waiting for the chance to use it during the a chance encounter with a beautiful Parisian, or even a French Canadian. But even if that did happen, I don’t think I remember much more than “Je m’appelle Mark” and “Zut alors!” and “Ou est la bibliotheque?” Not exactly the kind of stuff that makes women swoon. And I don’t think I’ve ever made a woman swoon using English, either.
Ohboyohnboy. My new Radeon card arrived. Now to install it and indulge in some long-overdue shoot-’em-up goodness. But before I go, check this article about Ralph Nader and his…supporters. It’s official. The man is a crank.
One reader took issue with my criticism of the state of community integration in Europe, pointing out that Stephen Hawking isn’t in a nursing home. He’s also Stephen Hawking, an important distinction. His experience is most likely not representative of all Europeans with disabilities, maybe not even all Brits. And I’m not saying that America is all that and a bag of chips when it comes to inclusion, because it’s not. But on the whole, the States are physically and programatically accessible to a greater degree than most of Europe. Emphasis on most. The UK is getting better, from what I hear.
I had a meeting at the office of my former employer, PACER Center. It was good to reconnect with all the people I know there. I love doing policy work, but sometimes I miss being in the trenches doing direct service. When I was at PACER, I did a lot of hands-on work with teens with disabilities and their families. I’m actually incorporating some of those experiences into the narrative thread of my book.
Last night at the caucus, I’m sitting near a young woman who was acting as the caucus secretary. After the caucus, she asks me (and my nurse) to have a drink with her. Okay, I say. When we get to the bar and sit down, one of the first things she said was:
“I hate this fucking country.”
She then lists, in detail, the many reasons the good ol’ U.S. of A. has earned her spite. Our president. Our prudishness. Our crass culture. I nod my head in agreement with many of these things. She then goes on to tell me about all the time she has spent in Europe. About how Europeans are enlightened and critical thinkers. About how she never felt homesick in Europe. About how she dreams of moving there permanently.
I mention that I have a German mother and I was born in Germany.
Her face lights up like Vegas. “Then you have EU citizenship! What in the hell are you doing here?!”
Um, because if I lived in Germany or most other parts of Europe, my crippled ass would be wasting away in a nursing home.
Of course, I’m polite and I don’t say that. And I don’t tell this story to disparage anyone. But her negativity really reminded me of something; I’m glad I live in the States. I have uncles in Germany and they can’t believe someone like me owns his own home and holds a job. They tell my mom that would never happen in Germany. In terms of accessibility and community integration, Europe lags behind the States by a good decade. And so while I may passionately disagree with most of the policies of the present administration, I’m obliged to recognize that living in America has presented me and my peers with opportunities that we never would have had elsewhere. Things certainly aren’t perfect here, but I wouldn’t be doing policy work if I didn’t believe that if there is one constant in America, it’s our capacity for change.
I just got home from the Minnesota caucuses and I’m fucking exhausted. It was interesting. I got elected to be a delegate to the county convention, so my Boston scheme is still on track. Not that there was a lot of competition for the spots anyway. But it’s a start.
Anyway, my hands are still freezing from the walk home, so me and the whole typing thing aren’t getting along too well right now. More tomorrow.
The Dossier has been slightly updated. Tell your friends.
Kucinich apparently isn’t the only presidential candidate who could use some training in disability etiquette. Here’s an article describing how John Edwards allegedly patted some people using wheelchairs on the head. Thanks to morvern for the heads-up. I should start a consulting business for political candidates, running them through the do’s and don’ts of interacting with people with disabilities. I wonder how much I could charge before people accused me of being exorbitant. I’ve actually considered getting into the consulting game at some point. You’d be surprised at the number of businesses that still don’t have a clue about how to deal with disabilities, either from an employment or customer perspective. It’s definitely better than it was a decade ago; most of the big corporations have the basics down. It’s the mid-sized and small businesses that could use more attention.
And here are two of my favorite people on the Net: Susannah Breslin and Warren Ellis.
Okay, Sofia Coppola just won an Oscar and she’s only a couple years older than me. I need to get to work and finish my book. But she absolutely deserves it. Her film was so well-written. It’s another example of me sitting there in the dark theater, shaking my head, wishing I could write something half as good.
I think I’m going to try to be a delegate to the Democratic Convention in Boston this summer. You don’t see many people with disabilities at the conventions and I think it’s important that we have some visibility in the political realm. But more importantly, it would be a cool experience to be in Boston and blog from the convention. I’m not exactly sure exactly how the whole delegate selection process works, but I think it starts with our state caucus on Tuesday. I don’t know if there’s some sort of initiation process for potential delegates, like swallowing a goldfish or reciting the party platform from memory. Anybody know about these things?
I need to catch up on my reading. My parents bought me a gift subscription to the New Yorker and I’m at least two issues behind. I also have at least half a dozen novels on my bookshelf that are silently accusing me of neglect. I really do need a new bookshelf. The one I have dates back to my law school days and it has books piled on top of each other every which way. It could easily kill someone if it ever fell over. And I’m in the mood for a really bad movie, so I rented League of Extraordinary Gentlemen. I read the comic, which was excellent. I’m confident I won’t be able to say the same for the film.
