Jan 182007
 

I don’t read much fantasy, but some of you know I’m a big fan of George R.R. Martin’s “A Song of Fire & Ice” series. There are four books in the series thus far and each one is a doorstop, bursting with multiple subplots and a huge cast of characters. I’ve long thought these books were unfilmable, but HBO doesn’t share my view. It just acquired the rights to turn the series into a television drama, with each season corresponding to a novel in the series. The material does seem to meet the prerequisites for an HBO series. It’s dark, violent, and replete with sex scenes. I’m guessing that the on-screen results will either be brilliant or a train wreck. But I can’t wait to see which it is.

Jan 172007
 

Those of us with physical disabilities have a tendency to internalize some pretty negative messages from society regarding our appearance. We learn to regard our bodies as freakish, deformed, or simply embarrassing. The concepts of disability and beauty rarely intersect in our popular imagination. So here are a few things I like about my body.

  • Hair–I’m incredibly vain about my hair. I product it up every morning and I am not ashamed to admit that I have highlights regularly added every couple months. Any comments that it’s thinning in the back are met with extreme prejudice. 
  • Eyes–I’ve been told I have rather expressive eyes. I learned to speak with my eyes when I was a kid in the ICU with a respirator tube shoved down my throat and some of those habits never left.
  • Fingers–I have long, slender fingers. There’s some old wives’ tale about guys with long fingers, but I forget what it is.
  • Lips–I have no idea where I got these pouty lips. They make me look like the kid brother Angelina Jolie never talks about.

Thanks to Blue for inspiring this post.

Jan 162007
 

Based on the novel of the same name, the film Little Children reminds us that the American suburb, despite the window dressing of affluent contentment, harbors as much suspicion, fear, deceit, and desperation as any urban core. The story centers on Sarah and Brad, two residents of this quiet burg who are both deeply unhappy with the paths their lives have taken. Sarah is an overeducated stay-at-home mom who secretly resents both her young daughter and her distant husband (who has recently discovered a penchant for internet porn). Brad is a stay-at-home dad married to a gorgeous wife who regards him with barely-concealed condescension. As you might expect, the two meet and begin an affair that is both an act of lust as well as one of covert defiance against their circumstances.

The entire cast is good, but Kate Winslet is especially fine in her portrayal of a character who is not particularly likable, yet offers hints that she could be much more appealing if her life had proceeded differently. The film also contains one or two disturbing scenes that effectively undercut our estimations of the characters. And see if you can identify the voice of the omniscient narrator. It was familiar enough to distract me every time I heard it.

Jan 152007
 

The Washington Post notes that some schools use the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday as a rare opportunity to teach something that isn’t related to the federally-mandated testing that drives so much of the curriculum in public schools. I suppose it’s inevitable that most people will view holidays like MLK Day as not much more than a day off from school or work, but it’s somewhat reassuring to know that teachers are taking it upon themselves to give students a historical context for the notation on the calendar.

I find these words of Dr. King, delivered in a speech on April 4, 1967, to be especially poignant in light of Bush’s recent proposal to escalate our presence in Iraq:

If we continue, there will be no doubt in my mind
and in the mind of the world that we have no honorable intentions in
Vietnam. If we do not stop our war against the people of Vietnam
immediately, the world will be left with no other alternative than to
see this as some horrible, clumsy, and deadly game we have decided to
play.


The world now demands a maturity of America that we
may not be able to achieve. It demands that we admit that we have been
wrong from the beginning of our adventure in Vietnam, that we have been
detrimental to the life of the Vietnamese people. The situation is one
in which we must be ready to turn sharply from our present ways. In
order to atone for our sins and errors in Vietnam, we should take the
initiative in bringing a halt to this tragic war….

Jan 142007
 

I have the distinct pleasure of appearing before my building’s Board of Directors in a couple weeks. The building has a rather strict policy on visiting pets, as in “No visiting pets, ever.” And I’ve been a little lax in telling my family that they can’t bring their dogs when visiting. So after the third letter from my condo association, I’ve got some ‘splainin’ to do. A few friends have suggested that I play the cripple card. “This dog was my former helper dog and I just wanted to see her one more time before she dies.” Or “The only pleasure I get in life is seeing my family and their adorable pets.” But I don’t think I’ll go that route. I’m an attorney; I should be able to find a slightly less cynical way to talk my way out of this.

Jan 132007
 

The sixth Disability Blog Carnival is now up at Wheelchair Princess. The topic is “disability and relationships”. All kinds of relationships–familial, friendship, romantic. I really should host one of these carnivals sometime. It’s a great forum for introducing readers to bloggers who might otherwise go unnoticed.

This is a long weekend for me and I’m trying to figure out how to fill it. Here are a few ideas I’ve had:

  • Do my taxes
  • Clean out my Inbox
  • Fix the ID3 tags on my questionably legal MP3 collection
  • Watch all six Star Wars movies (and wonder what happened to that exceedingly annoying kid from the first prequel)
  • Develop an on-line porn addiction
  • Spend an alarming amount of money on eBay buying useless trinkets
  • Start one of the many unread books lying around my place

I’m open to suggestions.

Jan 122007
 

Huh. The thermometer on my desktop currently registers four degrees. That has to be a mistake. We don’t get winter in these parts anymore. All we get anymore is Autumn, Parts I and II.

Jan 102007
 

In a couple hours, President Bush will likely announce to the nation that he will be sending an additional 21,000 troops to Iraq. I’m planning on watching the speech, but I’m probably in a tiny minority. While most Americans may oppose the President’s conduct of the war, I don’t think most Americans feel strongly connected to the war effort or the soldiers stationed over there. This administration has not sought much sacrifice from the American public and, for most of us, the war dwells on the periphery of our day. That’s why–even though the number of troops proposed is not nearly enough to bring any real stability, even though these troops may be committed to the region indefinitely, even though a genuine political solution to the sectarian violence seems more distant than ever–I’m skeptical that many people will be discussing this escalation around the water coolers tomorrow.

I’m hoping Congress will ask lots of questions about this proposal and force the president to clearly define the mission and milestones for success (or failure). And if the administration isn’t forthcoming, Congress should exercise the mandate it was given in November and put a freeze on additional troop increases and propose a roadmap for disengagement. But I’m also hoping that the voters who put the new Congress in power don’t fall back into their slumber.